The Possibility Project
- December 8, 2022
- June 10, 2022
- December 14,2021
- October 7, 2022
- May 23, 2021
- May 9, 2021
- April 25, 2021
- April 11, 2021
- March 29, 2021
- February 21, 2021
- February 7, 2021
- January 24,2021
- January 10, 2021
- December 6, 2020
- November 8, 2020
- October 25, 2020
- October 11, 2020
- September 27, 2020
- September 13, 2020
December 8, 2022
This year, the Possibility Project will explore how students, faculty, and staff are creating and strengthening a culture around our newly defined values of Authenticity, Intellectual Ambition, and Social Good. Join me as we discover how as a community, we continue to live true to our values.
How do we live true to our value of Social Good?
Why did you become a teacher? At some point in our lives, every educator has fielded a question like this one. It may be asked with enthusiasm and optimism as part of an interview process; it may be asked by an inquisitive guest at a dinner party; it may even be asked as we engage in self reflection and contemplate the inspiration behind our choice to teach.
Our motto, Non Sibi Solum - not for oneself alone, along with our value of Social Good speak to why I and so many at Pike became educators. Teaching is an inherently hopeful, forward-thinking, and service-driven profession. We teach because we believe we can create possibilities for the next generation. We teach because we believe our students, your children, have capacity for greatness. We chose Pike because we believe a Pike education can liberate human potential and possibility to transform ourselves and our world. Non Sibi Solum grounds us in a shared and larger purpose, because all of us hope to be connected to something larger than ourselves.
Our value of Social Good challenges us to care for ourselves, one another, and our community while leveraging our skills, gifts, and ambitions in service of others. Every day, we strive to offer this care with an expansive, curious lens and in daily acts of kindness and advocacy. Social Good looks like first graders brainstorming classroom jobs to ensure everyone has a role (and a responsibility) to help the community. It looks like Generation Green, an Upper School Club, teaching Lower School students about food waste, composting, and sustainability at a Lower School assembly. Social Good looks like our Family School Partnership (FSP) organizing seasonal treats and smoothies for faculty and staff. It’s the warmth and comfort you feel when Mrs. Oros welcomes you to campus when you’re volunteering in the Library, visiting for lunch, or dropping off a forgotten book, set of gloves, or iPad.
Pike is unique not only because of what it offers our children, but for what it offers all of us; a place that builds upon the strength of community and strives to answer the question of “who might we become and what might we accomplish because we are here together?” Thank you for being part of our community. Thank you for staying true to our motto of Non Sibi Solum by living our value of Social Good, every day. For It is all of us working together that make Social Good and Non Sibi Solum a part of all that we do and are at Pike.
A Reflection of Curiosity
Research shows that teaching and modeling the social competencies of kindness and compassion both at home and in educational settings produces significant benefits for children and youth. Read more about these benefits.
Building Connections
Non Sibi Solum Day
Non Sibi Solum Day took place on Tuesday, November 22 and was an all-school celebration of our motto, Non Sibi Solum - not for oneself alone. This day provided an opportunity for Pike families, students, faculty, staff, and alumni to come together and practice our value of social good in our classrooms. Alumni facilitated a blanket-making project in the classrooms, successfully making an incredible 40 blankets for Project Home Again!
Parent & Guardian Book Club
Thursday, January 19
7:00 - 8:00 p.m.
Join Head of Lower School Marybeth Heyd and Assistant Head of School for Strategic Outreach and Impact Kate Moran for our second community book club. We will be discussing Long Life Learning: Preparing for Jobs That Don’t Even Exist Yet, written by Pike parent Michelle Weise. Michelle will join us for a discussion and Q&A.
Commitment to Social Good
More Than Words Book Drive
The Family School Partnership organized a used book collection to benefit the organization More Than Words. More Than Words is a nonprofit organization that empowers young adults who are in the foster care system, court-involved, homeless, or out of school. Participants earn a paying job, learn job skills, and receive focused support to ensure they persist in school and plan for a successful future.
Supporting Local Community Organizations
The entire Pike Community came together to offer support to three local organizations through donations of food items, clothing, and toys, and by creating custom fleece blankets to serve our neighbors in need at the Lazarus House, Community Giving Tree, and Project Home Again this holiday season.
June 10, 2022
What is transformational learning? Part III
How has Pike transformed you?
To celebrate the end of this school year and the last issue of this year's Possibility Project, I posed this question to various students across the school.
Each year, in big and small ways, our students learn how to transform the world. They learn how to harness their intellectual ambition in service of the social good. Yet, as students strive to make an impact on the world, they are uniquely changed themselves. Being a part of the Pike community is a transformational experience igniting a lifelong journey of discovery.
December 14,2021
What is transformational learning? Part II
Do you have a favorite teacher from your childhood? Was there a teacher who had a lasting impact on the way you think and learn? As children, we are born hardwired for curiosity; we are interested in the world around us and eager to find ways to communicate with others. Yet, the world is complex, ever-changing, and often guided by rules and systems which are far from intuitive. In other words, our brains are designed to learn but each of us individually is incapable of learning all that we need to thrive in the world. We need help. We need teachers.
Research tells us that not only is learning highly social, but teachers are uniquely positioned to unlock students’ potential. Many of you may have already noticed the plethora of lessons, which your child(ren) only seems to hear or understand from their teachers. Rest assured that it’s not you; it’s them.
Transformational, long lasting learning requires intentional teaching, which mimics our brain chemistry. Teachers create systems for students to take in and process information, which allow for patterns and connections. Teachers must design lessons, assessments, and classroom culture, which promote competency, agency, and clarity of expectations and responsibilities - some of the cornerstones of developing intrinsically motivated students. Teachers, who make more than 1,000 decisions each day, embrace every student interaction as a chance to help them confront old ideas and practice with new ones with individualized feedback bridging the two.
While visiting classrooms, these micro moments - of connection and learning between students and teachers - are my favorite. Sometimes as brief as a few exchanged questions, these moments capture both the magic and science of learning; they capture the innate curiosity of your children and the dynamic craft of teaching. During a recent second grade math lesson, this moment began with “What strategies do you know to regroup?” During a fourth grade literacy lesson, this moment began with “What can you tell me about the main character?” and “What does this character want more than anything, and what might you predict will get in his way?” During an eighth grade history class, this moment began with, “Which revolution, American or French, was more revolutionary?”
Regardless of content or grade level, these moments all held the same skilled rhythm and technique: a student is seen and valued by a teacher, who helps them uncover, confirm or challenge what they know (or think they know), and stretches them to the next step of understanding often with a goal and a strategy. The possibility of transformational learning lies in the skilled, deliberate artistry of our teachers. Their wisdom, heart, and daily micro moments filled with both are at the core of Pike.
On a personal note...
It has been wonderful to see so many of you on campus. I am happy to confirm that I am expecting and our family will be welcoming a new baby into our lives in February 2022. The Family School Partnership has generously offered to celebrate baby Marshall-Warnock's arrival. In light of COVID considerations, they will host an outdoor celebration in the Spring after the baby's arrival. Thank you for all of your positive energy!
Building Connections
Our January Family School Partnership (FSP) Zoom meeting will focus on Fueling Pike, an exploration of key considerations in Pike’s strategic financial planning process with a spotlight on investments in teacher professional development.
We hope you will join us on Tuesday, January 25 at 7:00 p.m!
Commitment to Lifelong Learning
This month's Quill highlights the future of learning, the possibilities which await your children, and the ways in which Pike teachers are leading the way.
Don’t miss your chance to help envision Pike’s future and support our teachers.
Make your year-end gift to the Pike Fund today!
Parent Wellness/A Reflection of Curiosity
Did you know your children may need a lifetime of teachers?
Research from the Stanford Center on Longevity suggests that as many as half of today’s five year olds may live to 100 and thus will literally need to be lifelong learners.
Learn more about their The New Map of Life and how teaching and learning may need to evolve over time.
October 7, 2022
What is transformational learning? Part I
What are your earliest memories of learning math? Can you recall not only the algorithms and strategies memorized but also the context of your learning? How did your teachers engage you? Were you excited or eager? Nervous or disinterested? Research tells us that emotion drives learning, and our beliefs about learning predict school behavior. And, our stickiest childhood memories are so often inextricably linked to strong emotions we experienced at the time. If your child asks for help with their math homework, you may very well visualize yourself as their age along with the emotions and thoughts you held as a mathematical learner at the time.
As a child, math was one of my favorite subjects. At its core, mathematics, derived from the Greek word manthánō, “I learn”, is about inquiry and discernment. Mathematics is another language we have to understand the world we live in. As an educator, math is also one of my favorite subjects to teach. Luckily, I have spent this week visiting math classes across all divisions, joyfully taking on the role of observer and learner. Without exception, your children are mathematicians, thoughtfully developing fluency in this global language.
While mapping coordinate grids (sixth grade) may seem quite different from strategies for long division (fifth grade) or creating number bonds (first grade), there are striking similarities in how all of our students investigate mathematics. First, students of all ages tackle a problem from a place of competency and curiosity. Each classroom had laughter and a sense of camaraderie. Two students joined one math class a bit early and asked if they could play with a Rubik's cube. Imagine yourself as a preteen asking for more math. Now imagine the incredible amount of confidence and comfort you would need to feel in your classroom and with your friends and teachers to do so. Second, students of all ages communicated their thinking in a variety of ways. I heard versions of I think this works because… or I agree with...because… or I saw this a little differently… I saw unifix cubes splayed across tables, sheets of graph paper passed around, and scratch outs of old ideas replaced with new ones.
Unsurprisingly, students’ clear sense of psychological safety and belonging unlocked their ability to make meaning and make their meaning visible to others. Emotion drives learning - during and beyond math lessons. Pike students are embraced as their authentic selves and thus can explore the unknown, listen deeply to others, and make mistakes. These are the conditions for transformational learning.
Building Connections
FSP Outdoor Halloween Trunk or Treat
Thursday, October 28
5:00 - 7:00 p.m.
Please save the date for the FSP sponsored Outdoor Halloween Trunk or Treat! We will have pizza, games, treats and spooks for all ages! It will be quite an undertaking with game stations and a haunted walk, so we are asking all parents to consider volunteering!
Upper School students are also needed to help provide the spooks! If you can give your time, please sign up!
Commitment to Lifelong Learning
Coffee & Conversation: Planning for Possibilities
Wednesday, October 13
8:15 - 9:15 a.m.
Join members of the Board of Trustees, Greenwich Leadership Partners and Head of School Ashley Marshall in Coffee & Conversation: Planning for Possibilities in the library on October 13. Childcare is available; please register by emailing Stacey Aufiero at saufiero@pikeschool.org. Questions for the event can be submitted in the RSVP registration form.
Parent Wellness/A Reflection of Curiosity
One of my favorite mathematicians is Dr. Jo Boaler, a professor of education at Stanford University and co-founder of Youcubed.org. Her TED Talk is an encouraging reminder that math is for all of us.
May 23, 2021
Getting to know Ms. Marshall
What are you looking forward to this summer?
Catching up on my reading...and sleep!
What is Possible?
On June 24, 2020, we hosted our first Town Hall meeting. It was a week after my family and I had made the 1,000 mile drive from Atlanta. Boxes were piled across our house; only the most precious items were immediately unpacked - laptops and masks. Chad and I had become experts at passing Bennett, who had just turned one, back and forth between Zoom meetings; like most parents across the country, we had been without childcare for months. Across the summer, our community would connect in webinars and over emails to wrestle with the unknown. Would school reopen? Would we be safe? Could COVID-19 spread in schools? What if we couldn't come to campus? What did learning look like during a global pandemic? Amidst all of our concerns and fears, we used one question as an anchor to move us forward. What is possible?
As we near June 2021, nearly a year after our first Town Hall together, we have proven that Pike is a place for possibility. Safety is possible. With limited positive cases in our community and zero transmission on campus, we have been mostly safe and healthy throughout the year. We reimagined classroom spaces, learned to talk and laugh with masks on, and integrated weekly testing into our routines. Community is possible. We learned from parent experts at PikeTalks. We connected at grade level socials or on monthly Family School Partnership Zoom calls. We offered care for one another while giving away treats at drive-through testing or while dropping off lunches for faculty and staff. Joyful learning is possible. Every child attended school, learning face-to-face or screen-to-screen, because we were able to offer two programs: Off-Campus Learning and Campus-Based Learning. Our students discovered new knowledge and strategies. They set goals and made mistakes. In the most irregular conditions, they still made friendships, connected with their teachers, and learned. And not only did they learn, they learned at Pike. On Friday, I served as a judge for the Big Questions debate for four eighth graders. In pairs, they debated the resolution Mathematics was discovered, not invented. They were composed and analytical, presenting research-based arguments with evidence and multiple citations. They ended the debate with gratitude for the judges and enthusiastic applause for each other. For me, it was one of the most incredible learning exercises I have ever seen. For them, it was just another Friday at Pike; they just happened to be debating with masks during a global pandemic.
It has been an unprecedented year together. We faced loss and change and exhaustion. Still, we persevered. We made sacrifices, adapted to new challenges, and remained resilient. We made Pike possible.
Building Connections
New Family Outreach: Volunteers Needed
The Family School Partnership (FSP) is recruiting “Buddy Families'' to help welcome new families that are joining the Pike community this fall. If you’re interested in welcoming new community members, and participating in various summer welcome events, please sign up.
All returning families are eligible.
Commitment to Lifelong Learning
Family School Partnership Meeting
Wednesday, June 2
7:00 p.m.
Join us as we wrap up the year and engage in a discussion with Pike Admin on what we can provide
our children this summer after this very unique school year.
A Zoom link will be sent out one hour prior to the event.
On Curiosity: Reflections
As we begin to imagine school beyond the pandemic and the future of learning, here are two resources to spark your curiosity and sense of possibility. In this short video, What Will Schooling Look Like in the Future? Four OECD Scenarios, the Organization for Economic Co-operation and Development (OECD) presents a thought-provoking glimpse at four possible scenarios for learning and schooling in the future. In this blog, What’s the Purpose of K-12 Schooling?, futurist thinker Michael B. Horn explores five domains which schools in the U.S. need to consider when designing learning opportunities for their students.
May 9, 2021
Getting to know Ms. Marshall
What has been a favorite Mom moment for you?
Watching my Mom become a Grandmother; Bennett calls her G-Ma!
Happy Mother's Day!
I remember the first time a student called me Mom. The word startled me, but not my student, a Kindergartner, who continued on with her story without pause or hesitation. Looking back, every year in the classroom, no matter the grade or makeup of the class, there was always at least one instance when I was misnamed Mom. As I remember when Bennett first called me Mama, I can't help but wonder which Pike teachers he will call Mom in the years to come.
For many teachers, Mom is a student-appointed name at some point in our careers. Family and teachers are often the most steadfast presence in a young child's life. As they age, children begin to spend more time at school than at home. The village raising our children widens to include teachers, advisors, and coaches. Teachers see our students, your children, as the most important part of our work. Your children are the reason we became teachers. We delight in their firsts. I remember when my former student, Carly, wowed at a new counting strategy for adding double digit numbers and when Johnny began adding quotes with pride to support his thesis in argumentative essays. We worry alongside them amidst their challenges. I remember when Darrah agonized watching her best friend make a new best friend and when Sawyer was crushed reviewing his careless errors and missed points on a math test. Your children, our students, mean the world to us. While not their parents, we care deeply about students' journeys towards adulthood. It is a gift to join their village and watch them grow.
So, in many ways, it is fitting that this Mother's Day comes at the end of Teacher Appreciation week. We've spent a week, honoring our esteemed villagers (Pike teachers!) who spend hours each day encouraging, consoling, and inspiring our children. Walking past the decorated windows on campus, there are moving messages of gratitude from students: Thank you for helping me grow! Thank you for being there when I needed you! My teacher helped me not be scared of raising my own hand. I appreciate my teachers because they motivate me :) My teacher helped me see things in a new way. While there is family encircling each child at home, there is also a Pike family, a Pike village, here, too.
Building Connections
Drive-In Movie Night
Thursday, May 27
Please save the date and join other Pike families at the Topsfield Fairground on May 27.
Questions? Email fsp@pikeschool.org.
Commitment to Lifelong Learning
In a year with much shared challenge and sacrifice, it was inspiring to celebrate a day of shared joy, shared enthusiasm, and shared achievement.
Thank you for supporting – and being! – the Heart of Pike on One Pike Day! For a peek of the day of festivities, enjoy this video.
On Curiosity: Reflections
In recognition of Asian American and Pacific Islander Month, our treasured librarians, Fran Mellin and Linda Spence, recommend this website from the Library of Congress, where you can see online exhibits and videos.
April 25, 2021
Getting to know Ms. Marshall
What was the first grade that you taught?
I first taught in a preschool classroom.
What sustains us?
"Who would like to share their poem with the class?" Recently, I was a guest teacher for two sections of seventh grade English during their poetry unit. These were my closing words. After listening to and visualizing several poems, we (myself included) wrote our own poems and ended with readings from the class. Each classroom echoed with the same rhythm of silence and snaps; rapt attention for each friend reading followed by enthusiastic snapping after the last spoken word. These seventh grade poets read verses about acceptance, perfectionism, their future selves, and peer pressure fully capturing the hopes and anxieties of being a young adolescent during a pandemic.
Witnessing their imagination and craft, their vulnerability and camaraderie was the highlight of my week. For many educators, teaching is what sustains us. Watching children grow into themselves and stretch their learning edges fulfills and inspires us and adds purpose to our lives. Sustainability, the capacity to endure amidst change, is fueled by these moments of inspiration and meaning making. An ongoing commitment at Pike, sustainability has been ever-present during this unpredictable year of change. It's in the confidence of seventh grade poets, the creativity of every Pre-K student during recess, and the deep care and concern of our Upper School Generation Green Club. They have transformed Earth Day into a weeklong series of activities designed to minimize waste and keep Pike green. Learn more about environmental sustainability and Pike ingenuity. And, remember to participate in our upcycle challenge on Thursday!
Building Connections
Family School Partnership Monthly Meeting
Wednesday, May 5
7:00 p.m.
Please join Pike's Scenario Planning Team (SPT) and Ashley Marshall for a conversation about our collective hopes for the next school year. Ashley and the SPT will share initial brainstorming based on family surveys and will ask for your feedback to help guide our next steps. Your participation and perspectives will be critical as we plan for a healthier new school year!
Questions? Email fsp@pikeschool.org.
Commitment to Lifelong Learning
The Future of Learning: A Ground-breaking Summit in Two Parts
Thursday, May 13 and Monday, May 17;
7:00 p.m. - 8:15 p.m.
Via Zoom.
Sponsored by the Advancement Office.
Space is limited – register now.
Learning is changing. Fast. Robots in the classroom? Future skills gaps? Globalization? Jobs that don’t yet exist? Seismic demographic shifts? Welcome to the reality of the 21st Century. And it’s not just how students learn, but what they are learning – and what they will need to lead successful, meaningful adult lives in a complex society. For more information, visit our Future of Learning page.
On Curiosity: Reflections
Adam Grant is an organizational psychologist, author, and past keynote speaker for the NAIS (National Association of Independent Schools) annual conference. His most recent article in The New York Times, There’s a Name for the Blah You’re Feeling: It’s Called Languishing, has been widely circulated in schools as we imagine how to tend to each other and our children and sustain our hope.
April 11, 2021
Getting to know Ms. Marshall
Who are your favorite poets?
Mary Oliver and Adrienne Rich are two of my many favorites.
What are our small moments of joy?
When I was a child, I wanted to be a poet when I grew up. My seventh grade teacher, Mrs. Vernon, helped me to publish my poetry in a local newspaper, and I was certain a Pulitzer Prize was all but inevitable. While my poetry career has escaped me, April (National Poetry Month!) is the perfect time to reclaim the small moments of connection and discovery made possible by poetry. Unlike prose, poetry is brief and focused in its storytelling. What better time than during a pandemic is there to highlight the brief and focused moments of joy in our lives? This week, I joined a first grade music class for their taiko lesson for the most enthusiastic, Genki-inspired (Japanese for full of life!) drumming I have ever heard. Many of us put on our fanciest Pike socks and danced together on Zoom to welcome new families to Pike. And, after challenging Lower and Middle School students to write their own haikus, a second grade classroom emailed me this illustrative poem about their class plant. Can you guess what it is?
fragile like puppies
shining just like diamond rings
and tall like giraffes
Small moments of joy are plentiful at Pike. Each day is filled with a series of brief and focused moments of happiness when we are fully present and connected to those around us. They pop up suddenly in hallways, on Zoom calls, in the dismissal line after school, and their brevity and frequency can make them easy to dismiss or forget. This month, I hope all of us can seek out and celebrate these small moments of joy. Drum, dance, or, if you're feeling inspired, write your own haiku about Pike!
Building Connections
Please save the date for a community Virtual Town Hall meeting on Thursday, April 29 at 7:00 p.m. We will share results and themes from the recent family survey and beginning considerations for next school year.
Commitment to Lifelong Learning
In celebration of National Poetry Month, our treasured librarians, Fran Mellin and Linda Spence, have put together a Padlet full of poetry-inspired resources for children of all ages and adult readers as well. Enjoy!
On Curiosity: Reflections
On Being is a nonprofit media group committed to “pursuing deep thinking and moral imagination, social courage and joy, to renew inner life, outer life, and life together.” They have a comprehensive collection of poetry recordings to enjoy year round!
March 29, 2021
Getting to know Ms. Marshall
Where are you most looking forward to traveling to in the future?
Portland, Maine! It’s a beloved destination for my family.
How can we heal forward?
On Wednesday, more than sixty community members gathered, rectangle-to-rectangle on Zoom, to reflect on the ongoing racialized violence in our country. There were parents from every division as well as faculty and staff, alumni, and trustees. Across the pages of screens, we opened up our homes to one another. Pets, children, and partners skittered across our backgrounds or were planted firmly by our sides. In breakout groups, we opened up ourselves to one another. We shared our fears of safety and belonging and our anxiety of framing the news with our children. We listened, humbly and openly, to those we may not have even met in person. We did not ignore or escape the pain and grief of the moment. We stepped into our virtual Pike community with our whole selves and vulnerabilities and began to heal forward.
Vietnamese-American poet/author, Ocean Vuong, describes poetry as a place where we can be our whole selves and speak our vulnerabilities - our fears and hopes - without presumption or shame. He sees poetry as a fire escape where we do not necessarily escape the complexities of life, but where we can discuss them. Pike is our fire escape. It is strong enough to hold the weight of all of us - current and past students, families, and faculty and staff. Our motto, Non Sibi Solum, is strong enough to hold the weight of all of our concerns with grace, compassion, and a sense of possibility. Pike is the place we can go - even virtually - to offer each other hope and comfort. Pike is where we can heal forward together.
Building Connections
Join Us for a Pike Celebration!
Wednesday, April 7
6:00 - 6:45 p.m.
Via Zoom
Trivia, games, great music & prizes - Join fellow Pike families and newly admitted families for an evening of family-friendly fun. Please don your Pike gear and show us your school spirit! This event will be hosted by Pike and nationally recognized virtual DJ Will Gill.
Please RSVP and let us know if you and your family will be joining us!
Commitment to Lifelong Learning
Parent Book Club
Stamped Discussion - Session 2
Tuesday, April 20
8:00 - 9:00 p.m.
This is part two of a two-part series discussing the book Stamped by Ibram X. Kendi and Jason Reynolds. For this session, we will focus on where we left off in our first meeting — from Section 4 to the end of the book. A Zoom link will be sent one hour prior to the meeting start time. RSVP here.
On Curiosity: Reflections
The Massachusetts Asian American Commission has published a detailed guide of resources for those seeking to better understand and support the AAPI (Asian American Pacific Islander) community. The guide includes recommendations for picture and young adult books, podcasts, and links to similarly focused non-profit organizations.
February 21, 2021
Getting to know Ms. Marshall
What is your most often used emoji?
I still love the classic :)
How might we persevere?
It has been a long winter, hasn’t it? We have, individually and collectively, survived challenge after challenge. We found our way through the sudden closing of school last spring and worked together to reopen school this fall. And, every day between then and now, we resist loneliness and fatigue as so many of our routines of comfort and connection are still beyond reach. How do we keep going? How might we persevere? I have found three pillars to hold on to as I, too, learn new ways to persevere. First, we must find time to rest. Working and parenting can be all consuming - especially when these responsibilities collide at home. For this reason, I am so grateful for the dozens of parent volunteers who made “Parents Take Over Pike” a tremendous success this past Friday! Our faculty and staff have worked tirelessly and were overdue for rest and time away from Pike.
Second, we must find time to reflect. We should acknowledge the momentous challenges of this moment and make space to reflect on our anxieties and hopes. February 12 marked Lunar New Year, and this is the Year of the Ox. The ox signifies hard work and diligence. If there was ever a year to reflect on how we might be persistent, steadfast, and forward-facing, this is it. Finally, we must find time to be imaginative. Faced with new dilemmas, we must imagine new solutions and possibilities. This week, the Upper School student council transformed another snow storm into a schoolwide snow village challenge, and our Ninth Graders reimagined Greek myths over Zoom. Our students are incredible! If any of us are ever in doubt about how we might persevere, and rest, reflection, and imagination evade us, then let’s look to our students. They will show us the way forward.
Building Connections
Parent Book Club @ Pike
Wednesday, February 24
8:00 p.m.
As part of Pike's community engagement with Dr. Ibram X. Kendi's upcoming webinar, we are pleased to announce a Parent Book Club @ Pike.
The library has multiple copies of Stamped. If you would like to borrow a copy, please contact Francesca Mellin at fmellin@pikeschool.org. A Zoom link will be sent out one hour prior to the meeting.
Commitment to Lifelong Learning
PIKETalks
Saturday, February 27
10:00 a.m.
Please join us for our next PIKETalks featuring a virtual visit to the Addison Gallery with Pike parent, Christine Jee. Christine is a manager of School and Community Collaborations and will share about two of the Addison’s winter exhibitions: Aphrodite Désirée Navab: Landmines of Memory and Yoko Ono: Mend Piece.
All ages are welcome.
On Curiosity: Reflections
If you are curious to find a few more ways to celebrate or learn about Lunar New Year, visit The Museum of Chinese in America. While the New York based museum is closed, there are several virtual resources and programs available online.
February 7, 2021
Getting to know Ms. Marshall
What is the last song you listened to?
Just Us from the soundtrack of the movie, Soul. It is an inspiring movie with a moving soundtrack.
How do you want to be celebrated?
This week, we hosted candidates for our Director of Equity and Justice (previously titled Director of Community Life) position. One of our candidates shared this question, How do you want to be celebrated?, often posed to students. Upon reflection, I was energized by all the ways Pike teachers celebrate our students. I see this celebration in small, every day ways. When students are encouraged to build epic snow thrones or engage in sledding competitions during recess. When they decorate their windows in advisory or participate in Spirit Week - organized and sponsored by Student Council. When they move seamlessly between playing two truths and a lie with their class visitor (me!) and understanding character change across a story for a literacy lesson.
We also celebrate students in larger, more poignant moments. When students self-organize to create affinity groups - planning meetings and presentations and recording videos to advertise and engage more of their peers. When we send students to conferences to learn, advocate, and grow into their young adult selves. Just yesterday, several of our students joined the AISNE Middle School Students of Color Conference. They gathered virtually with over 300 students, faculty, and administrators from 37 schools across New England and represented what is best about Pike - our thoughtful and passionate students eager to make the world a better place. Above all, we celebrate students by giving them the space to be fully seen, discover their own voices, and explore new curiosities. We celebrate them as they become themselves. We celebrate them by believing in them and their endless capacity for possibility.
Building Connections
Looking for Parent Volunteers!
The Family School Partnership is delighted to announce that they are taking over The Pike School on February 19, 2021, and they need your help!
The parent community will come together and lead a day of asynchronous learning for all grades while giving our teachers and staff a day off in appreciation for their hard work.
Commitment to Lifelong Learning
Since the beginning of the school year, Marybeth Heyd, Head of Lower and Middle School, has made video recordings of read alouds to share with Lower and Middle School students. In celebration of Black History Month, Mrs. Heyd is reading books, which have won the Coretta Scott King Book Award. Learn more about all book awards from the American Library Association here. And, enjoy Mrs. Heyd reading Last Stop on Market Street by Matt de la Peña with a very special guest!
On Curiosity: Reflections
Our treasured librarians, Francesca Mellin and Linda Spence, have shared this short video podcast series Black History in Two Minutes. It is narrated by Henry Louis Gates, Jr. and describes major historical events and introduces viewers to a wide range of African-Americans.
January 24,2021
Getting to know Ms. Marshall
What is your favorite candy to eat while watching a movie?
I love sour candy - Rips, Sour Patch Kids, and others!
Why Pike?
In the midst of admission and hiring seasons, I frequently encounter some variation of: Why Pike? It is a necessary and worthy question. Every weekday, children, faculty, and staff spend more time at school than at home. Day in and out, we are living the experiences and writing the stories of our future. After all, school is where we become our future selves. So why become your future self at Pike? Looking back at my past week, there was a moment each day where I lived my answer to Why Pike? On Monday, I spent three hours with a group of teachers to ideate the criteria of an equitable hiring process. On Tuesday, I visited a second grade classroom and watched children stretch themselves as readers in differentiated ways. On Wednesday, I facilitated Family SEED with parents across divisions as we explored our identities and individual and collective privileges.
On Thursday, I was interviewed by the National Association of Independent Schools (NAIS) on the future of governance and the learning culture of Pike’s Board of Trustees. On Friday, I met with Stacey Aufiero, Director of our Daily Risk Mitigation Team, as I do most days, to analyze data and brainstorm new ways to keep campus healthy and open. I choose Pike because of our shared and continuous love of learning. Whether an adult or a child, every one learns, re-learns, and un-learns all the time. I choose Pike because of our future-mindedness. We study trends and research to adapt our practices and best serve our students. I choose Pike because of Non Sibi Solum and our commitment to equity and justice. We strive to create a world not only worthy of our own children but every child. These are a few of my answers; what are yours?
Building Connections
Upcoming FSP Meeting
February 3, 7:00 p.m.
Please mark your calendars for the FSP Meeting on 2/3 featuring Trisha Gordon, Head of Upper School.
Commitment to Lifelong Learning
On Wednesday, our students were able to observe various parts of the Inauguration. Many community members - students, faculty, and staff - were moved by Amanda Gorman’s reading of her poem “The Hill We Climb.”
On Curiosity: Reflections
Our teachers are another answer to Why Pike? This poem, What You Missed That Day You Were Absent from Fourth Grade by Brad Aaron Modlin is an invitation to imagine what teachers do all day. In big and small ways, Pike teachers help our students discover themselves and the world around them.
January 10, 2021
Getting to know Ms. Marshall
Are you a morning person or a night owl?
I am definitely a morning person! I wake up fairly early most days.
How might we measure a year?
On Wednesday, I found myself comparing the length of strips of paper with four first graders during their math lesson. With my eyes narrowed and my fingers pressed to the screen, my informal measuring attempts were quickly interrupted by their questions and suggestions. What if one of the strips is going faster? (I had not considered the sudden movement of inanimate strips of paper.) This one is wider, so it’s longer. (How did these children imagine so many possibilities to such a narrowly defined task?) Where is the other strip? (I had not considered the sudden appearance of additional inanimate strips of paper.) We need to create a start line. (Is this how we might measure all things?)
It has been an incredible school year. Indeed, it has also been an incredible start to the new calendar year. How might we measure a year? A week? How do we take stock of all we have accomplished and all that is still left to do? Following the wisdom of our inquisitive and imaginative first graders, I encourage us to pick a start line. Pick a beginning and advance from there. Whether your start line is September 8th, January 1st, or the moment you woke up this morning, you have the opportunity to begin anew, journey forward, and measure your achievements and shortcomings from there. So let’s go. We can move onward together.
Building Connections
Pike Talks: The Science of Yoga
Sunday, January 17
7:00 p.m.
Please join us for a workshop about the science behind yoga. Join Pike parent Geeta Vallecha to learn about the benefits of yoga and why it works for every body type. Then participate in an hour-long, slow-paced practice, appropriate for adults and children of all levels. A Zoom link will be sent out to those who RSVP. Learn more and RSVP.
Commitment to Lifelong Learning
We hope you’ve enjoyed our Onward! Podcast.
The fourth and final episode, What’s Next, offers listeners a chance to pick a new start line and imagine the future of Pike.
Click here to learn more and listen to the fourth episode.
On Curiosity: Reflections
I read this article I Hate the Mom That Covid Has Made Me at the end of 2020 and was filled with empathy and gratitude for the many shifts we have all made as parents during this pandemic. No matter your parenting role or the age of your child, we have the chance to pick a new start line with our children every day.
December 6, 2020
Getting to know Ms. Marshall
Do you have any siblings?
Yes, I have one younger sister. Courtney is a neuroscientist and lives in Philadelphia.
What are you most grateful for?
My father was a creature of habit and routine. On Saturdays, he solved crossword puzzles and played untimed chess for hours. Away from work, he wore the same green wool cardigan (captured in nearly every family picture) and ordered the same chicken dish when we went out to eat - without exception. And, each evening, whether my sister and I were restless young children or angsty teenagers, my father began family dinner with a shared prayer of gratitude. Amidst this season of gratitude, I think of my father and his daily offering of thanks - for the mundane and the spectacular.
I challenge myself and all of us to consider what and whom in our lives are worthy of “Thank You.” Thank you to my mom and all parents who Facetimed or Zoomed in for Thanksgiving this year and thus helped to keep Pike healthy. Thank you to Chad and all partners who help carry families with work both beyond and within our homes. Thank you to our teachers who redefined, once again, what is possible from the corners of their living rooms to yours this past week. Thank you, thank you, thank you.
Building Connections
Join us this week for the next Family School Partnership (FSP) meeting on Wednesday, December 9 at 7:00 p.m. This meeting will feature Marybeth Heyd, Head of Lower and Middle School, discussing the pandemic impact on learning and essential outcomes.
Please submit any questions for Marybeth in advance to fsp@pikeschool.org. A Zoom link will be provided prior to the meeting. *This meeting is being recorded.
Commitment to Lifelong Learning
We hope you tuned in to our first episode of Onward!, Challenges.Met.
The second episode, We Are All Philanthropists, is live now. Listen in to hear about the school's smallest gift and the power of Non Sibi Solum.
On Curiosity: Reflections
I rank poetry and TED Talks quite high on my gratitude list. This poem, For Estefani, Third Grade, Who Made Me a Card by Aracelis Girmay, visualized as a TED-Ed video, captures all that is possible and good in working with children.
November 8, 2020
Getting to know Ms. Marshall
What are you listening to these days?
I like to listen to podcasts in the early morning. This week, I've been listening to Malcolm Gladwell's Revisionist History.
How might we wait?
This week has felt long, hasn't it? Even as someone who is innately future-oriented, I found myself a bit listless at times. Still? was the one-word question circling through every time I refreshed a news site. Yet, even as we wait for the future, it is important to remember that we are already living it. Historian Howard Zinn once said, "we don't have to wait for some grand utopian future. The future is an infinite succession of presents, and to live now as we think human beings should live, in defiance of all that is bad around us, is itself a marvelous victory." Every day, we have the chance to live the possibilities we seek during elections. Every day, we have the chance to extend laughter, witness kindness, and offer gratitude.
Between each timely check of the news, I steadied myself in the possibility of the present. I watched Pre-K recess - a spirited game of tag mixed in with show and tell (rocks and acorns). I listened to the Kindergarten team describe how yards of yarn spun across chairs and desks represented a creative science assessment (spiders!) I zoomed with parents curious about the science of learning and how to support their children at home. I sat in absolute delight and appreciation as new parents described why they chose Pike for their family. As one act of waiting ends, another will surely begin. No matter the future we seek, the future we wait for, let's be sure to live it now. Let's live in the everyday and ordinary moments of laughter, kindness, and gratitude.
Building Connections
This week, parents have the opportunity to gather with the Family School Partnership (FSP) Meeting on Tuesday, November 10 at 10:00 a.m. I will engage in a “fireside chat” with Sam Kim, Upper School Parent. A Zoom link to all families will be sent one hour prior to the meeting. *This meeting will be recorded.
Commitment to Lifelong Learning
Fifth graders have been studying the election in Social Studies. Mrs. Weiss invited me to hear their thinking and curiosities. Enjoy this video as a few students share responses to, "Do you believe it is important to count all of the votes?"
On Curiosity: Reflections
In the spirit of living in the midst of all the waiting, I offer this poem, Small Kindnesses, by Danusha Laméris. It is a reminder of how, "mostly, we don't want to harm each other" and our shared ability to make life a little easier for one another.
October 25, 2020
Getting to know Ms. Marshall
What was your first job?
As a teenager, I worked at a small business, which hosted children’s birthday parties.
What does it mean to be a leader?
On Friday, Trisha Gordon and I were guests in Mary Machado’s Sixth Grade OCL History class. They were studying the dynasties and pharaohs of Egypt and curious about what it takes to become a leader. Their questions were direct and specific, yielding complex answers and stories from our past. What’s the best part of and the downside of being a leader? Were you popular when you were our age? Who was the leader of your friend group? It was a needed reminder about the size and scope of leadership; how being a leader is shaped by time, space, and perspective. Perhaps building pyramids, striving to keep school open in the midst of a pandemic, and having a fight with a close friend are equal in weight and challenge.
Whether in ancient Egypt or in 2020 Andover, whether a new member of the Upper School on the cusp of adolescence or the adult leading the Upper School remembering her adolescence, our hopes are the same. We want to be seen and heard and loved. We want to be connected and have friends and laughter. We want to help and heal those around us. So what do these timeless hopes require of leaders - then and now? We asked the students and these were their responses: Understanding. Listener. Courage. Modest. Honest and trustworthy. Confident. Hope. Patient. Indifference (meaning you should accept - perhaps with a shrug and nod - that you can’t fix everything).
Building Connections
Yesterday morning, Pike's Health Office and Family School Partnership collaborated to host our Flu Clinic. It was a thoughtful combination of the practical (state-mandated vaccinations) and the fun, whimsical positivity (balloon archways, Cookie Monstah treats & pumpkins for carving) that made for a perfectly Pike weekend morning. Kudos to our community for their innovation that allowed us to be together and keep each other safe.
Commitment to Lifelong Learning
This week, several of us from the Pike community attended the annual Association of Independent Schools in New England (AISNE) Diversity Equity and Inclusion Conference. It is the most robust conference AISNE hosts and includes teachers, staff, and trustee voices from most of our peer schools across the state and beyond. If you are curious about the role of DEI in independent schools, I invite you to learn more about how the National Association of Independent Schools (NAIS) encourages all independent schools, Pike included, to uphold these Principles of Good Practice for Equity and Justice in order to cultivate diverse and inclusive communities.
On Curiosity: Reflections
Simon Sinek’s TED talk, How Great Leaders Inspire Action, is one of my favorite TED talks on leadership. It is a powerful reminder to always start with “Why?”
October 11, 2020
Getting to know Ms. Marshall
What is your favorite season?
New England autumn is pretty spectacular!
Where will your imagination take you?
On Tuesday, I was invited to chase a dinosaur in the woods. I was outside at Kindergarten recess enjoying the sunshine and nearly effervescent laughter of five and six year olds. A group of kindergarteners suddenly approached me to share Ms. Marshall, there’s a dinosaur in the woods!! They spoke in a half-whisper, half-yell voice young children so often use to mark this occasion as both surreal and mundane. They were more excited than surprised, as if they were setting off to see a familiar friend; as if there is nothing more ordinary than dinosaurs living in the woods behind Pike. What else could I say besides Can you show me? Slowly and a bit nervously, I crept through the woods in heels made more for sitting than hiking.
The kindergartners, much more agile, arrived before I did and pointed to an outline of large boulders. I saw the shape immediately - four legs, a body, extended neck and tail. Yet what amazed me most was not our Pike dinosaur but our Pike children. How did they turn a collection of rocks into a dinosaur? Do they think anything and everything is possible? This weekend, I hope you and your children - no matter their ages - find time to imagine. Read a book. Take a walk. Daydream. Slow down, simplify, and let your imaginations run wild.
Building Connections
The first monthly meeting of the Family School Partnership (FSP) will be held on ZOOM on Wednesday, October 21 at 7:00 p.m. This meeting is open to all adult community members and I look forward to connecting with you then. I will be joined by members of the Daily Risk Mitigation Team (DRMT) to lead a discussion around health and safety at Pike. A Zoom link will be provided prior to the meeting.
Commitment to Lifelong Learning
This week, I watched some of our third graders make Wish Tree wishes with their Art Teacher, Emily Sandagata. In the true embodiment of Non Sibi Solum, they created wishes for world peace, equal rights, and the end of animal cruelty. Enjoy this video capturing this peaceful learning at work. Learn more about Wish Trees here.
On Curiosity: Reflections
Storytelling is a powerful way to nurture your and your child(ren)’s imagination. Every age is the right age to read to your child - whether from a book or your own imagination. I enjoyed this article about How to Tell a Great Bedtime Story and I hope you do, too.
September 27, 2020
Getting to know Ms. Marshall
What is your favorite dinner?
Chad and I have pizza night every Friday. We look forward to it every week!
Why do we need schools?
All that I am may simply be the culmination of hundreds of interactions with teachers. My first grade teacher showed me the power of stories, and my fifth grade teacher empowered me to write my own story. My second grade teacher taught me the beauty of dreams, and my favorite graduate professor explained how to turn a dream into a vision. My fourth grade Orchestra teacher inspired ten years of cello and a lifelong appreciation of Bach and Yo Yo Ma. My third and seventh grade teachers taught me to love poetry, and my college philosophy professors challenged me to love questions.
It is not a coincidence that I almost always start our faculty/staff meetings with a question and a poem. School is where we become our future selves. This week and beyond, I hope you take a few moments to wonder in amazement in your child(ren)’s doing and creating. Look how they are wonderfully themselves and imagine how they might further become their true selves in the coming weeks or years. Live in the beautiful tension between today and tomorrow. And then, send their teachers a thank you note.
Building Connections
Have you considered jumping into some work to connect with other Pike families?
- Family SEED with Ashley: SEED (Seeking Educational Equity and Diversity) is a monthly, evening, Zoom learning opportunity for Pike parents and guardians interested in working towards personal and societal change for social justice. Join in!
- The Science of Learning: Join Pike experts and community members for monthly Zoom lunch chats to learn about the science of learning.
Commitment to Lifelong Learning
Listen to Anne-Marie Balzano, Director of Leadership and Governance at the National Association of Independent Schools (NAIS), the largest association of independent schools, and Caroline Blackwell, Vice President for Equity and Justice at NAIS share their insights on what we might learn or unlearn in this moment and why we go to school.
On Curiosity: Reflections
In the midst of joy and curiosity, I recognize frustration and disappointment are also still possible. This short and humorous video on blame from Brené Brown is a helpful reminder to seek empathy as a path forward towards understanding and connection.
September 13, 2020
Getting to know Ms. Marshall
Do you have a favorite family recipe?
Homemade bread. I make homemade rolls every Thanksgiving.
What did we learn this week?
On Tuesday, I watched a second grade class have their morning meeting. It was a familiar routine (greeting, share, activity) done anew (six feet apart, masks on, all facing forward). In perhaps the greatest miming display ever, a student hunched near the ground, arms spread wide, face in a grimace, holding a very large, heavy, and invisible boulder. With significant effort, he heaved it to the teacher who caught it with outreached arms and an exaggerated stumble; remember, this is a very large, heavy, albeit invisible boulder. I left with a smile in awe of all we are learning. In this familiar routine (school) done anew (distanced by space or screen), we are learning to reach far enough to make connections, be joyful and silly in the face of grave circumstances, and find creative ways to share and shoulder the burdens this year will offer us. This year, perhaps more than any other, will be shaped by our communal learning. We must continue to stay curious, offer help with humility, and receive it with gratitude. Let’s see what’s possible when we learn together.
Here’s to our beginning.
Commitment to Lifelong Learning
With positive energy, the possibilities are endless. But, don't take it from us! Watch our very own students report on the past week.
Building Connections
As we look to reimagine all the ways we will build connections this year, we are excited to announce our new model for family engagement: The Family School Partnership (FSP). The FSP will create new traditions and diverse programming to help form a welcoming, inclusive presence for all students and families and build connections to school life.
We are proud to announce Pauline Jeong will be this year’s President of the Family School Partnership. Pauline and her family have been at Pike for five years. She is Mom to two Pike students: Audrey in Second Grade and Abby in Fourth Grade.
There are several other ways for the adults in our community to connect:
- Family SEED with Ashley: SEED (Seeking Educational Equity and Diversity) is a monthly, evening, Zoom learning opportunity for Pike parents and guardians interested in working towards personal and societal change for social justice.
- The Science of Learning: Join Pike experts and community members for monthly Zoom lunch chats to learn about the science of learning.
- Grade Level Coordinators: Assist teachers and administrators by getting involved in supporting your child's class and grade.
We hope you find meaningful ways to engage with other Pike families this year. We will share sign up details soon!
On Curiosity: Reflections
I have always been interested in why and how things work. If you’re looking to escape the COVID-19 news cycle for a bit, here is one of my favorite TED Talks on understanding the world through mathematics.